January is a time for celebrating the new year, looking back on your goals for the old year, and making new goals to focus on in the next months. I had some goals in mind as I was preparing to write my annual report and resolutions blog post. In fact, this post has been in my drafts for a few weeks. Half-way through the month, my life stopped for an instant when I heard about being diagnosed with breast cancer. Everything I was thinking I wanted to do this year froze in time, and I now have new life goals for 2013.
First, I think it's important to reflect and report on how we did in 2012.
Stephen "doesn't DO resolutions," but here's what he said his goals for last year were:
- "Be more awesome this year than I was last year, if that's possible."
- Get a "Best Dad" mug.
- Buy my brothers a Forever Lazy, in pink, and have them wear it.
Ah, yes. You KNOW you can just HEAR Stephen's voice coming out in these goals....
He was pretty awesome last year. I'll give him that.
He did get a "Best Dad" mug, and uses it quite often for "Daddy's Juice." {passion fruit juice}
The pink Forever Lazy-s didn't happen, but we are working on having a special someone design a pattern and having some special pink ones commissioned. Maybe EVERYONE should get a pink Forever Lazy and wear them in honor of BTHO cancer year.
I must say, Stephen's *difficult* and *completely measurable* goals for 2012 went in his favor.
He said that he doesn't really make resolutions, so his goal for 2013 is "just to make it." I'll second that.
Now, my turn. Last year, I said I wanted to:
- Read the Book of Mormon, studying along with our Sunday School
lessons. I would like to try to learn one new scripture each month,
maybe along with the Primary???
*I started off really well, following along with the assigned lessons. Then, I got called to teach a different class, and started studying the information to go along with those. My bookmark is still in the middle of the BOM. I need to work on that!
- GET INTO A HOUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*Done, and done!
- Be more involved, whether in Kyle's school, a play group, Iron Chef, etc.
*I did this, and it made me very happy. I was able to help with a few class parties, read to Kyle's class, go to a few different play groups, start up Iron Chef, have a few parties, and make some wonderful new friends in many connections of my life. It was a great year on the social front!
*NOT ONE PAGE. :(
- start working out again, and start incorporating more healthy meals each week.
*I did this. Even though I didn't get down to goal weight, I was working out regularly, as I made a pact with myself to only watch "my shows" while I was on the elliptical. It was a great motivator.
- Enjoy more of the everyday happy moments.
*I really tried at this one. I still need more work on it, but I do feel like my outlook "in the trenches of motherhood" was improved.
Overall, not a bad job for 2012.
Goals for 2013:
LIVE.
Realize I'm not superwoman, and I'm going to have to be a little selfish and focus on me and my family and getting rid of breast cancer.
Continue to enjoy and hold dear the everyday, precious moments.
Continue to blog about my journey.
Be more compassionate and forgiving.
Develop a stronger testimony of my Savior.
Maybe I should just quote President Dieter F. Uchtdorf from his General Conference talk
"Of Regrets and Resolutions."
- Resolve to spend more time with those we love.
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Resolve to strive more earnestly to become the person God wants us to be.
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Resolve to find happiness, regardless of our circumstances.
It's going to be a rough year, but I am mainly focused on staying positive and getting healthy and keeping the things that are most dear and most precious in the forefront.